
Cambodian psychotherapist Sathya Pholy
works as a consultant for microfinance providers VisionFund, as a
doctor for the Phnom Penh Counselling Centre and as the host of Love
Talks with Dr Sathya Pholy, a weekly radio show on Love FM 97.5.
In this month’s article he considers how the spirit of Christmas applies to everyone, whatever their beliefs. I was
born a Buddhist, but after being taught English by an American
Christian my father became interested in Christianity. In 1985, while
living in a refugee camp on the Thai-Cambodian border, my whole family
was baptised as Christians. During my 20 years in the US, I was
baptised twice more and ordained as a deacon in the New Apostolic
church. Since then I have given Bible classes, taught Sunday school and
preached the gospel for the Seventh Day Adventists Church.
Many early memories of my family revolve around Buddhist ceremonies, such as the Bonn Kathen,
which is the annual ceremony of donations for the local pagoda. For
Buddhists, donating money or gifts to the pagoda is an essential
preparation for the next life.
Now, as a Christian I have learned to
love Christmas, especially as it is celebrated in the US. I lived in
the northeast of the States, so my dreams of a White Christmas came
true every year. I usually spent more money than I should every
Christmas on gifts and decoration. I chopped my own tree and decorated
it with lights and ornaments. I bought lots of presents – I became
Santa Claus.
By comparison, Christmas in Cambodia is
a tame affair. Cambodians think of it as a celebration of Christ, so
are reluctant to take a full part in the festivities. ...